July 31, 2013

Stories from the field - The Magnificent Parmars

Every year, we conduct the Weather Insurance survey in Ahmedabad, Anand and Patan districts of Gujarat. This year, during one of my field visits, I visited Pritiben Parmar’s (name changed) house in Sitapur village of Patan district.

One of our surveyors, Satish was already in the process of conducting the survey with Mrs. Parmar when I entered the premises. They were sitting outside on a ‘chaarpai’ (bed). The house had a pretty big cemented verandah, which was shaded and had with three chaarpais. Their house was part of a cluster of five houses with a well being constructed right in the centre of this cluster. They requested that I sit on a chaarpai which I promptly did.

Mrs. Parmar was answering the questions and Mr. Parmar, Prashantji was lying on a chaarpai smoking a pipe. Mr. Parmar interjected sometimes with stories seemingly irrelevant to the survey. I couldn’t understand them but Satish and Mrs. Parmar found them amusing. Around 2 pm when the school in Sitapur was out, around six children came running into the house. They surrounded Pritiben, very curious to know what we were doing here. 

Mr. and Mrs. Parmar were grandparents to four children, the rest of the children were their friends and by the looks of it, very fond of Pritiben. Mr. and Mrs. Parmar were a jovial couple and I could see why the village kids enjoyed their company. Around the same time, Pritiben’s sons walked in and their wives came out of the house. At this point, all nine members of the Parmar household surrounded Pritiben.

Soon, a few kids were running around while a couple stood right next to me. The sons were keenly listening to every question and were ready to help, should Pritiben be confused about something. One daughter-in-law was winnowing jowar while the other had gone back inside. 

The survey hit the hour mark and Pritiben was getting restless. I could tell because she suddenly got irritated by the kids running around her in circles and asked them to stop. In the next ten minutes, she asked Satish twice about when the survey was going to end. Satish, being an experienced surveyor, convinced her to stay the course. Prashantji, though still busy with his pipe, had stopped narrating anecdotes soon after Pritiben had a fit about the kids.

After about forty-five minutes, the survey was finally completed. Towards the end of the survey, we require the respondents to sign on a receipt. One can also put a thumb print if he or she can’t write. Pritiben asked for the inkpad and pressed her thumb against it after which she proceeded to place her thumb imprint inside the allocated area in the survey. Her grandchild Neha who was nine, was taken aback by her grandmother’s action. She enquired about her grandmother’s action and Pritiben responded by saying “Well, I didn’t go to school, Neha.” Seeing her grandma use her thumb and not a pen surprised her. To her, writing was a basic skillset which she thought everyone possessed. Neha was naïve but I was impressed by her reaction, in the words of Jenny Holzer, “it’s better to be naïve than jaded”!

*Names and identifying details have been changed to protect the privacy of individuals.

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